How often are our actions the result of what we expect in return?  If we show kindness to a friend, we have an expectation of a stronger relationship.  This is not a bad thing; it is the normal transactional aspect of relationships.  But how do we act toward those who cannot provide anything in return?  In this verse, the proverb states that God will provide the reward in your life, therefore do not expect a return from the poor.  Many times, when we give to somebody in need, we expect the gift to get them over the hump.  Or we expect them to be wise in how they handle the gift.  Instead, they could misuse the money in unexpected ways. While we may see this as a waste, God is stating that He will reward you for your kindness regardless of how the money is used. 

When I was taking classes in the Master of Counseling degree at seminary, I was forced to ask the question of what I was receiving emotionally in return for helping people.  Many people do not realize that the act of helping someone can bring value to our lives.  However, there can be times when counselors begin to act in a way that benefits them more than the counselee.  For instance, instead of meeting with a client for a short period of time that gives the client the ability to be successful in their world, they create a dependency with the client that requires years of counseling.  This may make them feel good about themselves and provide more financial benefits, but was it in the best interest of the client?

An even more difficult question to ask is, are we willing to develop a relationship with somebody who has nothing to give in return? Jesus stated in Luke 14:12-14 that when you have a big dinner, you tend to invite your friends and rich neighbors, because you will receive something in return.  But instead, invite the poor so that they will be blessed.  If you do, God will reward you in the end.  The key question to ask ourselves is what does God want from me?  And how do I treat those who do not provide any benefit to me?   When we are kind to others regardless of their situation, God will notice our heart and compassion!   

Read Luke 14:1-14